It’s a good thing I retired last June. If not, it would have been very difficult for me to get to Rhinebeck last weekend, and turn around on this past Friday morning and drive back down to north Jersey for our nephew’s wedding!
Our nephew and our younger son are in the same age bracket and were very close when they were little, until he and his mom moved a little farther away. But his mom, who is divorced from my husband’s brother, has stayed very tight with the Ruit family, as well as with us. We love Stevie and adore his bride, and even though we knew it was going to be an expensive weekend, we had to go. Our son and his fiancee could not afford the trip, so we grabbed our grandson and took him along. These events are so important to a family, and at the age of 7, I knew it would make an impression on him.
My husband did all of the driving down there, and it was brutal with the rain and the traffic. But we had a chance to spend some time with my 92 year old father in law a few times over the weekend, so that was definitely a bonus. The wedding was amazing, at the Skylands Manor in the state park and botanical gardens in Ringwood, New Jersey. We had an enormously wonderful time.
Our grandson, however, was not initially impressed! It was boring, it was this, and it was that. But once the dancing started, we got him out on the dance floor and he never looked back! He danced with all the bridesmaids, and the bride and the groom. We had to drag him off the dance floor at the end of the night, because he was still showing everyone his “moves.” No, he is not shy!
And so another chapter in our extended family is in the books. It was a lovely weekend, and we even had a chance to visit with another old friend as well. The trip home today was a little smoother than the trip down, so it’s all good.
And now back to dentist appointments and catching up with what has been going on with the goatie breeding group. And getting ready for the cold weather.